What if you’re a tree, are your fruits tasty? – Tree of Life
Mindset is vital for the result that you wanted to achieve. Moreover, it is connected within your Attitudes and Habits and it was formed by your Childhood experiences and Family background.
In addition, it is a belief that orients the way we handle situations—the way we sort out what is going on and what we should do.
In order to get the fruits (results) that you want, you need to fix the mindset and analyze if what mindset do you have.
The Two types of Mindset
There are two types of Mindset the Fixed Mindset and the Growth Mindset;
This people believe that their basic qualities, like their intelligence or talent, are simply fixed traits. They spend their time documenting their intelligence or talent instead of developing them. They also believe that talent alone creates success—without effort.
This people believe that their most basic abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work—brains and talent are just the starting point. This view creates a love of learning and a resilience that is essential for great accomplishment.
Virtually all great people have had these Growth Mindset and they uses it to unleash their full potential.
Besides, I suggest if you really wanted to get the results that you want, whether you like it or not you need to choose the Growth Mindset.
Attitude creates the way you feel about people and situations. Your actions are a result of your attitude—which in turn creates a reaction from others.
It is your attitude toward others and the universe that determines the resulting attitude toward you. Have a positive, joyful attitude and you’ll have positive, joyful results.
As a matter of fact, it determines the state of the world you live in. It is also the foundation for every success and every failure you have had and will have.
In short, our attitude is what influences all our actions and only the right attitude, which gets us good results.
• Family background
The family background has very powerful effects on the developing child, impacting attitudes, beliefs, opportunities, habits, and personality traits.
For a long time, parents were seen as the key factor in a child’s success. Moreover, It is based on how they nurture their children at home. Also, it depends on how a parent teaches their child about the norm of life and especially to differentiate what is right or wrong. Indeed, the relationship between a parent and children is one of the essential aspects of a child while growing up. It affects the child’s attitudes, behaviors, habits and mindset.
By the fact that all of us came from childhood, it is impossible that you have not experienced to be taught by your parents. These behaviors that your parent taught you can widely affect the way you handle things in life. It can also affect on how you deal with your ideas and problems in life.
On the book “Think & Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill. It is listed on “Thirty-one Major Causes of Failure” and it is number seven above all. It stated that “unfavorable environment influences during childhood” is one of the thirty-one causes of failure.
After that statement, it’s followed by the description “as the twig is bent, so shall the tree grow”. Also, it stated that the “Most people who have criminal tendencies acquire them as the result of bad environment and improper associate during their childhood or youth.”
These are the factors that create the results that you have. That’s why placing your attention on the fruits that you have already grown is pointless. You cannot change the fruits that are already hanging on the tree. You can, however, change tomorrow’s fruits. But to do so, you will have to dig below the ground and strengthen the roots.
I want you to ask yourself. If you are a tree or human as you are in reality, are you satisfied by the fruit or the results that you have? If you aren’t, you probably know what to do.
Note – always remember everything is a result!
“Money is a result, wealth is a result, illness is a result and your weight is a result. We live in a world of cause and effects”– T.Harv Eker
I Hope you’ve enjoyed reading and Hope it can help you to achieve the results that you want!
Thank you so much!